Charity is not the exclusive domain of adults. Children, many of whom are over-indulged in today’s society, should be taught that they, too, have a responsibility to society.
There are opportunities for community service year-round, although most charitable service seems to be saved for the annual holiday season. Even toddlers can help gather food items for a community pantry. School children can be encouraged to clean the closet now and again and see that usable but outgrown items are taken to a charitable outlet where they can do double duty for others.
On birthdays or holidays, teach a lesson in charity by encouraging your children to evaluate their toys and games to see if some are expendable now that new ones are likely in the offing. If they see their parents doing the same periodically, they will be more likely to follow the example. Many communities have conveniently located bins where donations can be made.
If possible, however, don’t make charitable giving a “sanitized” activity. Children need to have concrete experiences that bring home the fact that they have it much better than many of their peers. Even those who don’t have an excess can find ways to help others. You have to be very poor not to be able to find ways to improve your community. Often, your presence is as important as anything material you can contribute.
Have youngsters join the adults in providing services to a local school, hospital or nursing facility. Participate together in a community activity such as helping to build homes for the needy or cleaning up and improving pubic parks and grounds. Just be certain the relevant officials are notified and supportive before you show up. Learning empathy for others less fortunate often becomes a lifelong habit.
Occasionally, the media spotlights a young person who has learned early to recognize the needs of others and take steps to help provide relief. Some of their efforts are so phenomenal they provide a pattern worthy of adult emulation. Fund-raisers often provide an opportunity in school or church groups for children to participate.
You may like to help your children and friends conduct a bake sale or other event to raise money. Be certain at the outset what the objective is and give the children a sense of pride in having contributed time, effort and products to such events. A “book roundup” to benefit the local library would be worthy cause.
Usually, charitable service gives youngsters a positive glow. If there is an opportunity for them to share their experience, such as discussing their efforts with family members or giving a report in their class at school, try to make such opportunities available. Like the measles, it’s catching.